What changes when my child turns 16 or 18?

The short answer

Sixteen and eighteen are markers, not single handover dates. At 16, post-school choices begin, some disability-benefit and decision-making rules change, and services may start dealing more directly with the young person. At 18, they are legally an adult, but education plans, healthcare transfers and practical support may follow different timetables. Make a separate list for education, health, benefits, money, records and family involvement. For each one, check the rules in your UK nation, ask what changes next and agree how the young person wants to be supported.

• Do not assume that every childhood service or entitlement ends on a birthday.
• Check age rules by subject and UK nation rather than using one transition checklist.
• Ask each service when its own transition, transfer or discharge process starts.
• Expect professionals to involve the young person directly and agree how family will help.
• Keep education plans, disability benefits, healthcare and decision-making arrangements separate.
• Record the next action, responsible person and deadline for each system.