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How do visual timetables and first-then boards work at home?

How to use a visual timetable or first-then board to show activity order, make endings clear and keep changed information trustworthy.

By FamilyFXWritten March 2026Published 6 August 2026Last reviewed 4 July 2026Next review due 4 July 20276 min readReviewed by FamilyFX
Fabric wall pockets and a woven basket fixed beside the front door, each holding a blank card, with a pair of small trainers on the floor below.

The short answer

Use a visual timetable to show a sequence of activities and a first-then board to show one immediate crossing. Start with a real routine the child already understands, using objects, photographs, pictures or words they can recognise. Show the support before the difficult moment, point to it as each activity changes and give completed items a clear finish action. A first-then board should make both parts true: first names the necessary current action; then names what genuinely follows, not a reward that may be withdrawn. Update the board visibly when plans change and remove old information. Keep adult help, sensory adjustments and processing time in the routine. The board has failed if the child cannot find or interpret it, if it contains too many steps, or if adults use it only to insist on demands.

  • A timetable shows a sequence; a first-then board shows one immediate crossing.
  • Use a form the child can recognise, including objects when pictures or words are not accessible.
  • Introduce the support during a familiar routine and teach how finished is shown.
  • Keep every displayed promise accurate and update changes visibly.
  • A visual support does not replace adult help or make an inaccessible activity acceptable.

A parent prints a page of small symbols, points to it during a difficult transition and finds that the child is no more able to move. The conclusion may be that visual timetables do not work.

But a visual support is not a picture-based instruction to obey. It is a place where the child can retrieve current information. It must match the job, the child's understanding and the real household plan.

Choose between a timetable and first-then

A visual timetable shows a sequence: breakfast, clothes, teeth, shoes, nursery. It helps when the child needs the order of several activities or wants to know where they are in a routine.

A first-then board shows one immediate crossing: first shoes, then garden. Some families call this now-next. It helps when the full sequence would be too much or when only the current transition needs to be visible.

Neither is a task checklist. If “get dressed” contains several inaccessible steps, the child may need a separate short task strip showing pants, top and trousers. The broader guide can help you compare visual support types.

Use a representation the child recognises

Visual does not have to mean cartoon symbols.

  • A real object can represent what happens next: shoes for going out, towel for bath.
  • A photograph can show the child's actual cup, room or adult.
  • A clear picture can generalise across several versions of an activity.
  • Written words may suit a reader who dislikes childish images.

Test recognition away from pressure. Show the item and ask the child to match it to the place or activity, or watch whether they use it accurately. A child who can name a picture may not understand that it predicts the next event.

NICE recommends that visual supports such as words, pictures or symbols should be meaningful to the autistic child or young person [1]. It does not say every autistic child learns best visually.

Begin with a routine that already works

Do not first introduce the board at the household's hardest moment. Choose a familiar short sequence the child usually completes, such as snack then garden.

  1. Place the two representations where the child can see and reach them.
  2. Say the same small phrase: “First snack, then garden.”
  3. Point to the current item before snack begins.
  4. At the real ending, help the child mark snack finished.
  5. Point to garden and move into the first action, such as collecting shoes.

Repeat enough for the support's operation to become familiar. Then apply it to a transition that needs more help.

Research reviews have reported gains in engagement, initiation or transitions for some autistic people and people with intellectual disabilities using taught activity schedules [2]. The studies involved structured teaching in defined settings. They do not show that displaying an unfamiliar board once will change a home routine.

Make finished visible

The child needs to know what happens to the current information.

They might:

  • move the picture into a finished pocket;
  • turn the card over;
  • remove an object and place it in a basket;
  • tick or wipe off a word;
  • slide a marker to the next activity.

Choose one action the child can perform or observe. Do not make finishing more complicated than the activity.

If an activity has no obvious endpoint, define it. “Play finished” may mean save the game, photograph the model or complete one last turn. The board cannot resolve an ending nobody has agreed.

Keep first and then truthful

“First” should name the necessary immediate action at an achievable level. “First be good” is vague. “First put the cup on the tray” can be completed.

“Then” means what genuinely follows. It can be ordinary information, not a prize: first nappy, then clothes; first car, then nursery. If it names a valued activity, do not later withdraw that activity because the child needed help or showed distress. The board is a map, and changing its promise turns it into leverage.

This does not mean every activity must happen regardless of safety or circumstances. If the plan changes, update it openly.

Show change on the board

Tell the child as soon as the new information is reliable. Point to the old item, name what is not happening, remove or cross it and place the replacement.

Granny is not coming. This picture is finished for today. First home, then Granny on Saturday.

Keep any part that remains true. If the child was expecting a particular cup, person or song, preserve it where possible.

Do not quietly replace the picture and expect the child not to notice. Trust in the board depends on it holding current information. The article on predictability without manufactured surprise explores this balance further.

Put it at the point of use

A weekly chart on the kitchen wall may not help beside the bath. Put a first-then board where the crossing happens or make it portable.

Check height, glare, visual clutter and whether siblings rearrange the pieces. Use durable materials only if durability helps; paper and tape may be enough for a trial.

Adults must update the support. Assign that job. An out-of-date board is worse than a simple spoken plan the child can trust.

Let the child use the information

The board should not remain an adult presentation. Give the child an active route where developmentally accessible: carrying the object cue, moving the finished card, pointing to what comes next or helping choose between two available pictures.

If the child rearranges the board, find out what the action means. They may be playing with loose pieces, expressing a preference or showing that they expect a different sequence. Restate the real plan without treating every moved symbol as defiance.

Choice can be displayed inside a fixed route: first clothes, then choose garden or blocks. Keep unavailable pictures out of the choice space. If the child communicates “no”, examine access and acknowledge the message even when the activity remains necessary.

Gradually reducing prompts is appropriate only when the child continues to find and operate the support. Removing adult help while leaving the board on the wall is not the same as teaching independent use.

Keep support and sensory access in the routine

The board shows order. It does not brush teeth, make clothing comfortable or reduce bathroom noise.

Include adult help honestly: a picture may show “teeth with Mum”, not imply the child performs alone. Adapt materials and environment. Give processing time. If the child resists one pictured activity, identify where the transition breaks and examine the activity itself.

A systematic review of visual activity schedules for children aged 5 to 12 with ADHD found only four eligible, varied studies [3]. That limited evidence does not justify promising that a schedule will reduce “problem behaviour” for every child or diagnosis.

Review whether the board is doing its job

After a week, ask:

  • Does the child recognise what each item means?
  • Can they find the support at the relevant moment?
  • Do they know how finished is shown?
  • Is the information accurate and updated?
  • Did prompts, delay or distress change?
  • Can the adult maintain it?

Simplify before adding more pictures. If the child uses the sequence reliably, you may keep it, reduce adult pointing or let them help build it. If they ignore it, change the representation, location, amount of information or task.

The useful board is not the most comprehensive. It is the one that quietly answers: what is happening now, how does it end and what comes next?

Sources and further reading

  1. [1] NICE. Autism spectrum disorder in under 19s: support and management. 2013; last updated June 2021 (accessed 4 August 2026).
  2. [2] Koyama and Wang. Use of activity schedule to promote independent performance of individuals with autism and other intellectual disabilities: a review. 2011 (accessed 4 August 2026).
  3. [3] Thomas and Karuppali. The efficacy of visual activity schedule intervention in reducing problem behaviors in children with ADHD between the age of 5 and 12 years: a systematic review. 2022 (accessed 4 August 2026).